I mentioned this on the latest episode of the podcast, for the next few months I’m going to be re-releaseing older episodes of the Masocast instead of putting out new episodes. 

I really hate having to do this but with the day job, the freelance work and the Masocast I’ve been getting between 3.5 and 5 hours of sleep every night for months and I just need one less thing so I can catch up with everything.

There’s also a good chance I’ll be getting surgery in the next couple of months so that means I need to push harder than usual to wrap up a few projects so I can focus on recovery for a month (yeah..fun..right?).

Oddly the latest episode I just released is epiosde #150.  On hundred and fifty episodes, posting just about every other week for years.  It’s gone by so fast and changed so much from that first episode.  

I actually feel really bad for putting new episodes on pause but thankfully there are others out there putting out some great kink podcasts so it’s not like kink podcast seekers will go without.

Again I want to stress that this isn’t the end.  In fact I’ll be recording a few epsidoes over the next couple of months so I can hit the ground running when I start up the new shows again.


I’m quite possibly the worst person to watch television with. Or at least I’ve become the worst.

After the day job, my freelance work kicks in.  I usually work sitting on the floor while Sade lays on the couch. 

We’ll be watching a show..ok Sade’s watching and I’m partially watching but mostly working but I’ll be able to tell when something important happens in the plot of an episode. 

It’s at that point I’ll ask Sade to interpret what happened since I’ve been too busy staring at code to really pay attention.

“Wait, sorry, why did the guy throw the live chicken at the nun?

She’ll patiently reach over to the control and pause it, give me the short version to update me, I’ll say “Ah”, and she’ll continue.

A few minutes later:

“Wait, sorry, why is the woman claiming she’s only 1/4 vampire and 3/4 grapefruit?”


Rinse and repeat.

A lesser person would have stopped me long ago and said “Listen jackass just watch it again on your own time later and stop interrupting my flow”.

Not Sade.

Maybe it’s just part of her seemingly infinite patience with me or maybe she’s secretly keeping track of every time I do it in order to pay it back later, but until my workload lightens, this is what our couple time in front of the TV looks like.  

We make a point to cuddle and watch something without any work involved a few times a week but for now this is the majority.  I think that’s what we’d do if we won the lottery, the first thing would be to just chill and watch a West Wing marathon or something without me needing to ask why CJ is upset about Kumar.

Random Kinky Stuff

-Sade and I went to the first play party we’ve been to in a while and it was such a great time.  Met some really great people, made some new friends and found some new guests for the podcast. Oh and I’ll be doing another big round of episodes again soon so if you’re game to go on via skype or in person (if you’re going to be or are in NYC that is), drop me an email.

TinaHorn2-Speaking of the podcast, a new episode with Tina Horn is now live, while you’re at it check out her podcast Why Are People Into That. It’s funny, smart and if you’ve ever wondered about the nuances of a kink you’re not into…or are into..this is a good one. Plus she’s funny as hell so that’s a big bonus.

-On another not-so-kinky podcast, 99percentinvisible, they covered the history of high heeled shoes in the episode Feet of Engineering.

-Lastly, if you’re not reading Dumb Domme you’re missing out on some of the most honest, heartbreaking, funny and..well fuck it’s some of the best writing on kink…no on relationships and life that I’ve ever read.