I’m quite possibly the worst person to watch television with. Or at least I’ve become the worst.

After the day job, my freelance work kicks in.  I usually work sitting on the floor while Sade lays on the couch. 

We’ll be watching a show..ok Sade’s watching and I’m partially watching but mostly working but I’ll be able to tell when something important happens in the plot of an episode. 

It’s at that point I’ll ask Sade to interpret what happened since I’ve been too busy staring at code to really pay attention.

“Wait, sorry, why did the guy throw the live chicken at the nun?

She’ll patiently reach over to the control and pause it, give me the short version to update me, I’ll say “Ah”, and she’ll continue.

A few minutes later:

“Wait, sorry, why is the woman claiming she’s only 1/4 vampire and 3/4 grapefruit?”


Rinse and repeat.

A lesser person would have stopped me long ago and said “Listen jackass just watch it again on your own time later and stop interrupting my flow”.

Not Sade.

Maybe it’s just part of her seemingly infinite patience with me or maybe she’s secretly keeping track of every time I do it in order to pay it back later, but until my workload lightens, this is what our couple time in front of the TV looks like.  

We make a point to cuddle and watch something without any work involved a few times a week but for now this is the majority.  I think that’s what we’d do if we won the lottery, the first thing would be to just chill and watch a West Wing marathon or something without me needing to ask why CJ is upset about Kumar.

Random Kinky Stuff

-Sade and I went to the first play party we’ve been to in a while and it was such a great time.  Met some really great people, made some new friends and found some new guests for the podcast. Oh and I’ll be doing another big round of episodes again soon so if you’re game to go on via skype or in person (if you’re going to be or are in NYC that is), drop me an email.

TinaHorn2-Speaking of the podcast, a new episode with Tina Horn is now live, while you’re at it check out her podcast Why Are People Into That. It’s funny, smart and if you’ve ever wondered about the nuances of a kink you’re not into…or are into..this is a good one. Plus she’s funny as hell so that’s a big bonus.

-On another not-so-kinky podcast, 99percentinvisible, they covered the history of high heeled shoes in the episode Feet of Engineering.

-Lastly, if you’re not reading Dumb Domme you’re missing out on some of the most honest, heartbreaking, funny and..well fuck it’s some of the best writing on kink…no on relationships and life that I’ve ever read.

One of the most common things people have requested for the podcast is the ability to donate via Bitcoin.

“I’d love to support the podcast but I don’t want a paper trail with my name associated with The Masocast.”

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