UnspeakableAxe
A Story Of Sex, Submission and…wow I can't sum it all up here
A friend tweeted this Found Femdom post (@unspeakableaxe by the way if you’d like to say hi) and I’m posting it straight away!
Naomi Campbell in a photo shoot for Interview magazine. This may be one of the only Found Femdom images I’ve seen that displays blood.
Mistress Alex and I sit down with Melissa Febos who’s book Whip Smart details her experiences as Pro Domme in NYC.
We talk about her experiences writing the book, the reaction she has received from the mainstream press, how people in the lifestyle have reacted to it and more.
As always, feel free to leave a comment on the podcast page, rate and comment in itunes or just drop me an email if you or someone you know would like to be interviewed on the show.
Thanks again to everyone who’s supported the podcast by either donating, spreading the word or just plain listening and giving feedback.
If you’ve ever been curious about or are currently in a lifestyle relationship, you’ll want to check out a few workshops in October.
Presented by Sir Eric and Sir Stephen, these workshops will cover a wide range of areas in living in a D/s relationship.
It’s hosted by a great new group, NYC Kinky Living, join the Fetlife group here.
I’ve been lucky enough to catch presentations by both Sir Eric and Sir Stephen in the past and I can’t begin to express how amazing they have been. I’ve gone to two presentations by Sir Eric this year and both have been outstanding (bonus points when Sir Eric’s wife Lady Christie is presenting with him, rumor has it she may be attending one of the workshops too though I can’t confirm this since the restraining order prevents me from asking her directly).
Sade and I have even been asked to partake in the panel discussion on the 30th.
Tip: Since you read this blog, you know what I know and you know what I don’t know, please only ask questions that I know the answer to or can at least sound clever coming up with a witty reply. Oh and if you can ask a question like “Sade, how great is it to own such an incredible slave like Axe? His charm, wit and sexual skills are legendary and known throughout the land”. It will really make me look good.
Mark your calendars, they will all be held a the LGBT center in NYC.
Click on the descriptions to be taken to the Fetlife event page for each.
October 9 – Crucial First Steps: Creating Foundations for Healthy BDSM Lifestyle Relationships, 1pm-3.30pm
October 17 – Turning the “Magic Key”: Maintaining Healthy BDSM Lifestyle Relationships and Putting It All Together, 1pm-3.30pm
October 23 – Not Just Roses: Tools for Successful Problem Resolution, 1pm-3.30pm
October 30 – Panel Discussion: BDSM Lifestyle Couples Share Their Relationship Experiences, 1pm-3.30pm
Each workshop is $17 if you buy in advance or $20 at the door or you can pay $60 in advance for all four workshops.
A conversation with Raven Lightholme, of the Freedom of Fetish podcast, about her kinks, why she wants a sex island, funny lines from porn movies, what she enjoys about power exchange, the appeal of objectification and what her kinky superpower would be.
Find her website at Freedomoffetish.com
We also answer a listener voicemail!
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I’ve been thinking a lot about how lucky I am. How I used to consider myself unlucky in love and with women in general. Sure I could have sex with plenty but when it came to actual relationships it never worked out the way I had hoped. Either I didn’t feel it or they didn’t feel it.
I was reminded of this recently when my first real girlfriend added me as a friend on facebook. We emailed back and forth, catching up, talking about her kids, her ex husband, her new boyfriend. This is the first woman to break my heart. I was 19 and thought I’d never recover from it. I was crushed. Now I wanted to thank her for it. But how do you thank someone for breaking up with you because you found something so much better? You found what you always wanted even at 19 but didn’t’ think it was possible. How do you say that without sounding like an asshole?
Fast forward a few days and I’m finishing up some work. Sade had gone to bed a few minutes before and I was in a rush to join her. I take out the trash, wash the dishes, brush my teeth and I quietly walk into the bedroom.
She’s fast asleep. Naked and sprawled out. My heart jumps at the sight of her, seconds later my cock does too. I strip and lay next to her, tempted to start kissing her back or gently lick her ass, or nibbling her ear. I’m pretty sure if I did, she’d wake up and jump on me but I can’t seem to bring myself to disturb her. She looks so breathtaking while she’s dreaming that it feels like it would be a crime.
I start thinking about the road that took me here, how it’s more than just the kind of sex I was looking for.
It’s not just about the beatings, the bondage, the amazing sex, my submission to her or her dominance of me.
It’s about the day to day, the not as kinky days.
It’s about walking in the door from work and squeezing her tight.
It’s about making her a snack in the kitchen only to turn around to see her smiling at me and finding out she was standing there the whole time just enjoying me making her something.
It’s about giving her massages while listening to This American Life.
It’s the lazy days, the planning for the future, the laughing, the inside jokes, the cuddling and a million other things.
I think back again to that 19 year-old version of me. If I could go back in time I would have told him not to worry, that everything would work out, to just enjoy the journey and not worry so much about the destination. That he shouldn’t focus so much on what he doesn’t have and take pleasure in the things he does have.
It will all work out eventually.
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