I really don’t enjoy most femdom porn. Yeah I know I’m not the first to bring this up.
Sure there’s a part of me that likes it to some degree, but it’s a low degree.
The reason? You can tell that most of them are designed to cater to the malesub fantasies and not for most dominant women.
It’s the same reason I can’t go to a Pro, she’s be doing it for me not for her.
They’re all the same too, seen one you’ve seen them all.
A stern model take a male sub and pretty much does everything to him that every male sub wants. Very rarely does it look like the woman is really really enjoying it.
Men In Pain is probably the biggest one out there.
You don’t even need to pay to become a member to know what the formula is.
A: Hot woman ties up boy
B: Hot woman spanks/whips/flogs boy
C:Hot woman “forces” boy to have sex with her and usually doesn’t even fake an orgasm
D:Hot woman uses a strap-on on boy.
E: Hot woman “forces” boy to orgasm.
They even end with they guy’s orgasm. It’s like they’re saying “ok now that he’s done so is the scene because that was the important part”.
Now I won’t lie, I’ve paid memberships to it before, I’m one of the bad guys. Just because it’s bad, it’s still the closest thing I can find.
Yes, I’ve jerked off to it (hey I didn’t say I was perfect), but even then there have been a few times where I just couldn’t suspend my disbelief enough. Maybe the “domme” was overacting, or maybe it just seemed like the guy clearly didn’t even care about pleasing her. I know a few dominant women who have paid for membership as well. Did they get off on it? Did they enjoy it even a little? I don’t know.
There are a few companies out there that make porn by women for women, maybe someday we’ll have femdom by Dommes for Dommes.
I’m not saying femdom porn should reflect reality, it shouldn’t, it’s porn, but it should at least try harder. Shouldn’t they?
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Agreed. Both me and the lady have a hard time finding good porn to enjoy together. I think it is very challenging to capture the psychology of what makes a scene hot on video.
Another issue we find is a lot of BDSM play which is intense to experience just isn’t that interesting to watch (electricity play, for instance.)
But I do think a more psychological BDSM porn is really lacking.
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Sometimes I really dislike seeing strap-on play in porn. Most of the time, really, because its never how I want to see it, and usually, its always aggressive. And always with the strapping it on. What about the fingering, and the fisting, and all the fun things you can do to a tied up boy with a glove and a cock ring?
Yeah, I aggressively fuck men, but just as often, fucking a man in the ass is as ‘vanilla’ as if he were fucking me. Or whatever. Sometimes, godforbid, its an act of intimacy and sweetness and very intense and its a hell of a lot more than what they make of it.
Blargh. Its never fun seeing the kink you like best filmed in a way you *don’t* like at all.
I concur that there’s a distinct lack of femdom porn where the woman really is a domme and is clearly getting off on the scene. Maybe people could remedy this–make their own amateur femdom porn and post it on YouPorn or somesuch.
(While we’re on the topic, possibly the hottest femdom scene I’ve ever seen is on a DVD called “Talk Dirty to Me” (from Shar Rednour and Jackie Strano of SIR Video). It’s a pony-play scene that is dramatically different from anything on MIP. Highly recommended!)
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