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How to protect your kinky site in under 5 minutes

This is more of a public service announcement for people who run their own website (kinky or not).

I manage or help manage somewhere around 35..holy fuck 35?…shit let me count again…yep around 35 websites, some are kinky and some are vanilla.

Well this morning when I was going through my emails from overnight, I had a notification that someone tried to hack into one of the kinky sites I manage for a friend.  They probably would have succeeded if I hadn’t remembered to install some basic software that blocks people who are attempting unsavory things.

If you have a self-hosted wordpress site I cannot stress how important it is to have some kind of security.  Rather than write out a long tutorial I recorded a quick screencast on how to setup a popular security plugin called Wordfence.

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Now this doesn’t mean you’re guaranteed to not get hacked.  There is nothing you can do to guarantee that…other than not having a website.  But using a plugin like this is a good start.

The Loss Of A Hero

Christopher Hitchens was a personal hero.

If you’re not familiar with his writing you should pick up his latest collection of essays. Hell you can even look though his old.  He wrote so much and I haven’t even come close to reading everything he did.  Maybe that’s why I don’t have a total sense of loss when I read moments ago that he finally succumbed to cancer.

His debate with Tony Blair is one of the most brilliant examples of how one can use wit to make a point.   It’s a thing of beauty.

I didn’t agree with everything.  He could come across as a pompous ass but even then I liked him when I was hating him.   His stance on the invasion of Iraq for one thing, but the bastard was so smart he almost made me question my pacifism.

Almost.

He made me smarter. Or maybe he just made me sound smarter when I’d try and quote him.   I’ll leave you with a few of my favorites:

There is only one cure for world poverty that has ever been found or ever will and it’s very simple.  And it could be phrased very simply too.    It’s called the empowerment of women.  Go to Bangladesh or Bolivia – I have to ask you to hold your applause though I love you – go to Bangladesh or Bolivia, give women control over their reproduce cycle, throw in a handful of corn if you can, make them not just the beasts of burden and the beasts of childbearing that they’ve become and the floor will rise, it just will.  It never fails anywhere.  Against this one solution, the Catholic Church has set its face.  The efforts of the missionary Church in the Third World mean more people die, not less.  It’s as simple as that.  More famine, more disease, more ignorance, more random and avoidable death.

At another debate alongside his friend (And another hero of mine) Stephen Fry:

I say that homosexuality is not just a form of sex; it’s a form of love and it deserves our respect for that reason.  In fact, when my children were young, I’d have been proud to have Stephen [Fry] as their babysitter and I’d tell them they were lucky.  And if anyone came to my door as a babysitter wearing holy orders, I’d first call a cab and then the police.

And finally, on his beliefs in the face of death.

 

I will miss him.

No More….

…food.

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Wanted to wish everyone a happy Thanksgiving!

I’m gonna go slip into a food coma.

Fuck Yeah

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The Cold

I’ve always liked the cold weather more than the hot.

I’ll take ten above over a hundred above any day.

I like how it makes me appreciate the warm buildings even more, how it makes me wish I were cuddling, how it reminds me of all things warm.

Coffee tastes and feels better, a beer buzz feels better,

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It reminds me of waking up early to feed the cattle and pick the eggs before the school bus came to pick me up. How working harder made me feel warmer.

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It reminds me that, when I was a young boy on a farm, I wasn’t so stupid as to wear Converse All Stars out while doing chores.

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It also makes one appreciate dry socks.