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I’m In Trouble

· February 27, 2014 · Thoughts · 12 Comments

I’m in trouble.

Just a little over 3 months from now Sade and I are getting married.

That’s not the trouble part.

The closer we get the more overwhelmed with emotion I get. You see I’m really a softie…really..a hopeless romantic. Sade actually makes me swoon. Really…physically swoon. Swoon!

Stop reading now unless you can stomach some serious cheese. I recognize that.

So why am I in trouble?

We’re writing our own vows.

This is trouble in two forms. The first is that I don’t have the words to explain how I feel. There aren’t words. Maybe in some strange alien language. Maybe it’s “Gleep Glorp” from the planet Fremutron 5 in the Dacor sector.

The other problem is, whenever I think about what to say, I get choked up. Misty eyed and emotional. I imagine standing next to her on our wedding day and I lose it.

So I’m completely stuck. Every time I try and think of the words I get emotional.

Lately I’ve been hearing this song in my mind when I think of it.

Yeah…see? How the fuck do I write vows when I can barely hold it together when I picture it in my mind?

Fuck.

Fuck fuck fuck

If I was a wealthy guy I’d do it this way:

I’d say..”Sade, I can best sum up my vows…in a song. Please welcome Mr Stevie Wonder!”

I’ll buy a lottery ticket just in case.

Meanwhile I’m racking my brain. How do you write wedding vows. How in the hell can I be expected to evoke the words that summarize how I feel about being her husband?

Step one is to overcome the emotion…then I can work on step two.

 

Ellen Page comes out in an amazing speech

· February 15, 2014 · Thoughts · No Comments

Found Femdom: Open Minded

· February 11, 2014 · Found Femdom · , · No Comments

Once again thanks to Aarkey for sending more Found Femdom my way.

This comes from photographer Gui Paganini in a set called Open Minded

Now I know I’m going to get an email from someone saying it’s not 100% “Femdom” because there are some images where there isn’t a woman in a dominant position.  As you may guess I don’t put that much thought into it.

Great advice for submissive men

· February 5, 2014 · Links · One Comment

There’s a great post over at O Miss Pearl 33 Things Every Submissive Man Should Know,

It’s filled with things I wish someone told me early on in my kink journey.  #1 really knocks it out of the park:

1:We are people too, and all the vanilla courtesies still apply. For you as well as me.

There’s a reason this is #1.  Just reading it makes me shake my head with memories of shit I did or shit I put up with.

How to protect your kinky site in under 5 minutes

· January 31, 2014 · Dirty Web Works · , · 5 Comments

This is more of a public service announcement for people who run their own website (kinky or not).

I manage or help manage somewhere around 35..holy fuck 35?…shit let me count again…yep around 35 websites, some are kinky and some are vanilla.

Well this morning when I was going through my emails from overnight, I had a notification that someone tried to hack into one of the kinky sites I manage for a friend.  They probably would have succeeded if I hadn’t remembered to install some basic software that blocks people who are attempting unsavory things.

If you have a self-hosted wordpress site I cannot stress how important it is to have some kind of security.  Rather than write out a long tutorial I recorded a quick screencast on how to setup a popular security plugin called Wordfence.

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Now this doesn’t mean you’re guaranteed to not get hacked.  There is nothing you can do to guarantee that…other than not having a website.  But using a plugin like this is a good start.

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