Thoughts

Kinky Classes With Sade

Sade has been teaching quite a bit lately.  Most of her classes lately are one-on-one lessons for couples and individuals who want a good intro to kink or who want to up their game and expand their skill-set.

Well she’s doing a special class on March 1st for a small group of people and if you or someone you know would like to join in on the action the details are below:

Sexy, Kinky, Safe, & Skilled
An intro class to BDSM and Kink
taught by Ms Sade Ami

for Dominant Women and Women who Switch
All Sexual Orientations Welcome
Saturday 19th of March at 1pm

$130/ per student
Advance registration required.
Purchase tickets at http://www.brownpapertickets.com/event/156866

This is a gentle introduction to bondage, discipline, sadomasochism, and fetishism for women who wish to pursue their desires in kink with confidence and skill.  The class size is limited to 8 participants to ensure that your interests are addressed with thorough attention.

Topics include:
– Understanding your own dominance.
– Safety and preparation. Learn how to prepare for the scene you desire and how to play within reasonable limits for mental and physical well being.
– Risk Aware Consensual Kink and Safe, Sane, and Consensual.
– Negotiations and communicating with your partner.  Learn how to honestly assess your own and your partner’s desires for mutual fulfillment, as well as to stay connected throughout the scene.
– Basics of safe bondage and light SM: simple rope bondage workshop and discussion/demonstration of light sensation play, what it means to “warm up” the body.
– Aftercare: how to decompress after play to ensure emotional and physical care.

Please be ready to discuss your interests and questions in an intimate setting with other women of like mind and to respect privacy and discretion.  No cell phone use will be allowed during class.  Class will be approximately 3 hours.

Inquiries can be made to:
GlintNYC@gmail.com
646.580.8810
www.GLINTNYC.com

Ms Sade Ami is a New York City based Mistress and Kink Educator, who provides private sessions and personalized tutorials. Classes use a hands on approach and are focused on a growing understanding of one’s own proclivities. Participants also learn the technical skills to conduct simple to elaborate play scenes safely and with growing ease.

So, What’s up?

I have to fit a lot into this post.  So much to mention.

Work

Well it’s been a pretty busy year so far.   I’ve had lots of extra freelance work so my days have been filled with the dayjob and my nights with the evening gigs.

On the plus side it means more work.  On the downside it means less time to put in the podcast.  Sometimes it feels like I have to quickly slap one together so I can finish my other work in time.

I still manage to crank one out every other week to my own surprise.  I just managed to pass the 50th episode mark.  And here I thought I’d quit after 10 or so.

Speaking of the podcast, I’m almost done with the long list of interviews I recorded a few months ago so I’ll be doing more interviews starting next month.  If you or someone you know would like to sit in front of a mic for a few just shoot me an email.

Let’s seee…what else:

Play

Sade and I share calendars, syncing our iPhones and Laptops. One day while at work she told me I had better check my calendar and sure enough here’s what I see:

 

“Be dressed in cod piece sans front piece, collar, leash, nipple clamps, and ballstretcher. Be waiting for me, kneeling with hard cock in hand and dinner for 1 on the table.”

 

Need I say more?

Events

The Rope Share is back Sunday February 20th.  This time it’s hosted by my friend Tyutumi and Master Mike.

More details can be found here.

While you’re there be sure to take a look at all of the other events coming up at Glint Studios.  If you haven’t been to a class or event there before, you don’t know what your’e missing.  No, really you don’t know what you’re missing and I pity you.

Now THAT’S Self-Promotion

Sade was recently asked to write a bio for a friend’s website.

One thing both Sade and I have in common is the uncomfortable feeling that moves over us when we’re asked to write a bio.

For me it just feels egotistical to write a bio that will be used for promotional purposes.  Every time I write one I think “Geez, I sound like a douche who’s only interested in self promotion”.  Reading bios of people I know however seem perfectly natural and un-douchebaggie.

I was asked to write about myself recently and I replied with “Axe:  A dude”.

They asked for more and I replied “Axe: A super cool kinky dude”.

They didn’t like that one either for some reason.

So I thought I’d write one for Sade since I know how uncomfortable it is to write one.

“Mistress Sade is a super foxy lifestyle and professional dominant and kink educator in New York City.  One of her greatest enjoyments is showing people new ways to express themselves through BDSM.  Everything from the most basic styles of play to more advanced techniques, Sade teaches singles, couples and even groups how to get in touch with their inner dominant.   Sade offers a unique perspective and super foxy ways to be foxy in all her foxiness and foximilitude.  Her super cool slave/sex machine Axe wrote this for her, thus proving she’s so busy teaching others that she doesn’t have time to proof-read her own bio.”

Too much?

 

 

A Good Year

She tied me on all fours, a rope harness on my chest, rope spreader-bar on my ankles and my wrists bound.

I was nervous.

“You’ve been a very good boy this year, but I’m still going to punish you…”

 

 

Masks

We had planned to go to the event a week or so beforehand, but this time she said there would be a bit of a twist.  She wanted us to wear masks the entire time and not be our usual social selves.  Between the two of us we know a decent number of people at public events so we usually spend a majority of the time socializing rather than playing.

This time was going to be different.  This time she only wanted to play.

We hopped off the subway and when we were about a block away we slipped our masks on.  Both masks covered our faces enough that it would be nearly impossible to tell who we were less you knew our eyes and lips terribly well.

A few people looked, trying to scope us out as we walked through to the back.  One close friend of ours recognized us right away but She put her finger to her lips and with a wink the friend knew that we weren’t there to visit. Maybe they recognized one of the items she was wearing– or as I suspect they might have recognized the glint in her eyes.

We found a spot next to the dance floor. Most events in New York take place in bars that have been temporarily converted to a kinky space.  You’ll see a spanking bench in the middle of a dance floor, a St Andrews cross next to the bar and other varieties of kinky equipment here and there, but, for the most part- it’s still a bar. We were there for only a few minutes when she motioned for me to climb over her knee before proceeding to give me the single longest spanking of my life.

Two relentless hours shifting rhythmically between stinging open palms and brutal paddles.  Most of the time was spent over her knee, but now and then she’d force me to wobbly feet, bracing me against the bench or the wall-whichever position of supplication currently amused her most.

It was never ending.  People milled around us was in awe, murmuring their appreciation while a few people approached to offer her fresh glasses of ice water (maybe they were worried she’d get thirsty and stop– or maybe they were hoping they could be next on the receiving end of her hand). At times it would get so intense that my knees would buckle and I’d fall to the floor.  She’d give me a few minutes to recover but it wouldn’t be long before she’d put me back in whatever position she wanted me in.

By the end I was incoherent, drooling, and raw.  She held me until I was able to stand up and limp out the door.  I checked the time and it had been over two hours since we arrived. Two long hours getting my ass beat. Only a few minutes had been spent doing anything but.

She was a machine and my ass was tender for days afterwards.

The next day a friend emailed me asking me why we didn’t go to the party.   I told her we were too busy.

Maybe we’ll bring out the masks again someday soon.