Submissive Triggers

I know a domme who once told me about a male slave she had who she claimed could orgasm on command with no genital stimulation. She talked about giving him lengthy whippings and then telling him to cum, which he would do instantly.

Somehow, I don’t really believe her.

I’ve had several men have spontaneous orgasms while we played (meaning, no genital stimulation), but never “on command”.

It’s often considered to be hyperbole in women as well. There are stages of arousal that have to happen before orgasm and they’re not instantaneous. Although you can certainly condition a reaction, is it really an orgasm? And, with no obvious way to verify, how much of the ‘training’ is female submissives coddling egotistical male dominants? Trained to orgasm on command once aroused is… substantially more believable than starting from zero.

As for submissive triggers… for me, personally, the two big ones are hair pulling (although it has to be done in the right way – the hand fisting in the hair to take control way) and face slapping, although it has to be with the right person. There are some people who could pull every trigger in the universe and still not make me go into submissive headspace. 🙂

I don’t have personal experience bringing men to orgasm with hypnosis. Hearsay says yes, it’s entirely possible, but as it seems to involve a warm up/arousal period via either suggestion or visualization, I’m not sure it’s exactly what you’re looking for. If you feel like paying the money, you could try downloading this recording: http://soforia.com/hypnoshop/cat/SNAP-to-it-mp3-p-14.html
Soforia sadly passed away some time ago, but it looks like her website is still selling recordings, and she had a high reputation among people interested in such things. Through conditioning I’d imagine you could get the response time down quite a lot, anyone have any figures on exactly what the physical limits are in terms of quickly achieving erection and orgasm?

I do have experience bringing women to orgasm through hypnosis. Rona’s above comment is above reproach: nevertheless, you can bring someone through those stages of arousal via suggestion, and thus create a real orgasm using only words, though of course not instantly. Admittedly I haven’t done a properly controlled study and ruled out possible effects of friction with clothing etc., which I believe is also considered a possible confounding factor with orgasms from wet dreams. So let’s just say for now that you can create an orgasm with hypnosis in the same sense that a wet dream creates an orgasm. I’ve done the instant trigger thing too, and as Rona mentioned, something certainly happens, but it doesn’t seem to be a full/real orgasm, and doesn’t get the more gratifying response of a more gradual approach.

I have always responded to high heeled shoes and boots – especially when paired with long skirts that emphasize a woman’s hips. Being called ‘slut’ also is one of those triggers – it just cuts to the point with me.

john

That’s interesting. I have someone that wants to be submissive to me. I think I can do it.

I too am skeptical about the women who say they can orgasm on command, mostly because not one of them has been able to describe how they were trained. Also, how do you prove it? With men, the evidence is there in front of you, if you see what I mean. :p And if it were really done with women, why not also with men? That makes no sense to me.
 
Having said that, I am a certified and licenced NLP practitioner, and I see no reason at all why hypnotic suggestion cannot usefully be employed to easily train a man or woman to orgasm on command. And because of establishing informed consent, they’d have to know how it was done. My biggest reason for skepticism about orgasm on command is the inability of the people to even give me a hint of how it was done. To me, that either means that they weren’t consenting with full information, or it wasn’t done at all, or they’re withholding information for some reason.
 
You know when you smell a certain smell, that can sometimes intensely bring you right back to a significant moment when you smelt it. That’s a trigger (also called an anchor). You’ve already described experiences you have of those intense responses in an erotic context too. So why not also with arousal to the point of orgasm?
 
Now, I haven’t yet embarked on this with my partner because he feels unsure about it, so I cannot confirm categorically that I have done it and it works. But with the knowledge I have now, and my experience of the other triggers I’ve established with my partner, I think it would take a maximum of three sessions to get the job done, and possibly only one if I do it just right.
 
I’ll have to get back to you on that one, once I do it.
 
For the record, it is most definitely possible to have an erection and orgasm in trance. Just saying. Ooooh, this is a hot topic! 🙂

As a submissive women, having a dominant partner tell me to come for him works every time. It helps if there is some stimulation but honestly it doesn’t need to be much. There is no need for “conditioning” or hypnotism or anything else. Just chemistry and the exchange of power between us. It’s fun, easy and gratifying.